For Professionals: Resourcing Decision Making Guide with Nuerodiverse Clients
Ida Jeltova • July 10, 2026
If you've ever had a client tell you a grounding exercise "didn't do anything" and weren't sure why, this reference is for you. It maps the common reasons resourcing stalls with neurodivergent clients — difficulty naming feelings, absent mental imagery, retrieval and attention differences, body-awareness and language-channel barriers — and pairs each with a practical adjustment. Observation-first and diagnosis-agnostic, it's meant to be usable at a glance, while flagging clearly which techniques sit within licensed clinical scope.
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