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You’re Not Your Attachment Style: How Understanding Your Patterns Can Help You Step Into Your Greatest Moments At Greatest Moments Therapy, we believe every person has the capacity to grow, heal, and move toward the strongest, most connected version of themselves. But when you scroll through the internet, you might see a very different message—one that reduces people to labels, pathologizes normal behavior, or suggests your attachment style is a fixed identity you’ll carry forever. Clinical practice and science tell a much more empowering story. Let’s explore what research actually shows, and what it means for your ability to build secure, meaningful connections throughout your life.

Over the past decade and a half, research has made it increasingly clear why Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is often confused with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD). Although certain behaviors may appear similar on the surface, the reasons behind them are fundamentally different. NPD and ASD can look similar from the outside because, in both, people may use protective or defensive patterns that make their behavior seem self-focused, volatile, or hard to read. Let us unpack that!

Learn how to recognize the early signs of burnout, including irritability, sleep issues, and loss of humor. Discover how imbalances between control, responsibility, and awareness lead to burnout and collapse. Explore how therapies like EMDR and DBT can help with recovery and burnout prevention. Get actionable tips to balance your responsibilities and protect your well-being."
Autism and Narcissism are among most popular search terms in pop psychology. Yet, they are among the most misunderstood. It is very important to understand the difference and be able to distinguish when someone is using narcissistic strategies (presenting with traits of narcissism, which is often) vs true Narcissistic Personality Disorder (which is rare). As a practicing psychologist, I way too often hear "So narcissitic" used to describe someone who seems to have Subtle Autism. "Narcissistic. Arrogant and insensitive, self-absorbed and rude." Let us unpack the key terms to understand and demystify. Subtle autism refers to a presentation of autism spectrum disorder (ASD) that is often less obvious but still significantly impacts social functioning, communication, and flexibility in thinking and behavior. Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a clinical diagnosis characterized by a pervasive pattern of grandiosity, a need for admiration, and a lack of empathy that significantly impairs relationships, self-image, and functioning. Narcissistic traits are behaviors or characteristics that resemble NPD but do not meet the full criteria for a personality disorder. These traits may present in individuals as part of their coping mechanisms, personality styles, or adaptive social strategies.
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